{"id":7194,"date":"2020-05-06T16:31:09","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T16:31:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.monsterindia.com\/career-advice\/networking-tips-for-introverts-7194\/"},"modified":"2024-10-15T18:00:46","modified_gmt":"2024-10-15T12:30:46","slug":"networking-tips-for-introverts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.foundit.sg\/career-advice\/networking-tips-for-introverts\/","title":{"rendered":"Networking tips for introverts"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"networking<\/span><\/p>\n

Social events, business gatherings, and even simple parties get introverts all worked up – the idea of being in a room full of strangers is just too overwhelming. There\u2019s the fear of awkwardness, dead air, or even obvious lack of connection.<\/span><\/p>\n

But socialising is a must, especially when working in a competitive place like Singapore, and success is driven by who you know as much as what you know.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are many ways you can work on your nerves when meeting new people and strengthening your ties. It\u2019s not an overnight process, you\u2019ll need to take small steps until you get comfortable in being more outgoing and ready to take your networking skills<\/a>\u00a0to the next level.<\/span><\/p>\n

Prepare<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nPreparation is key! Depending on what event you\u2019re attending, you can try and suss out the guest list beforehand to get your head in the right space. Think of questions you can ask of key people, and do some research about their companies and what\u2019s been happening. But if you don\u2019t have time for that (let\u2019s be honest, most of us don\u2019t) then just prepare general topics of conversation that would suit multiple people. Are you up to play with what\u2019s been happening in your industry? What are the big news stories around at the moment, locally and globally? If you\u2019re informed, you\u2019ll always have ways to make conversations.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bring a wingman<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nIt\u2019s always nice to have a friend. In networking and business situations, having a colleague beside you can help you feel more confident and relaxed to join conversations and meet people. They can introduce you to others and act as backup for any chats gone awry. Just make sure not to use that person as a total crutch – take a few opportunities to go off on your own and make your own way!<\/span><\/p>\n

Focus on your target and relax!<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nYou know those people at events who just go from person to person, introducing themselves and handing out and collecting business cards? Yeah, don\u2019t be the guy. While he gets the business cards he wants, he doesn\u2019t make any meaningful connections and is only remembered for being \u201cthat guy who just wanted my contact\u201d. Stay focused on why you\u2019re there (to make connections) but relax enough to actually build relationships, share stories and discuss things with new people. Interpersonal communication is about sharing, so don\u2019t focus on what could go wrong – just go with it!<\/span><\/p>\n

Exit strategically<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nEnd your conversations on a good note by telling them how nice it was to meet them, and that you\u2019d love to catch up with them in the future. Try and set your next meeting, exchange contact information, and remember to thank them for their time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Practice<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nPractice makes perfect, so don\u2019t stop trying these tips until talking to others becomes second nature. If all goes well, by your third or fourth networking adventure, you\u2019ll feel those nerves and stress melt away!<\/span><\/p>\n

Check out our Career Centre<\/a> for more great workplace tips!<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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