{"id":7152,"date":"2016-10-07T17:02:18","date_gmt":"2016-10-07T17:02:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.monsterindia.com\/career-advice\/how-to-deal-with-workplace-conflict-7152\/"},"modified":"2016-10-07T17:02:18","modified_gmt":"2016-10-07T17:02:18","slug":"how-to-deal-with-workplace-conflict","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.foundit.sg\/career-advice\/how-to-deal-with-workplace-conflict\/","title":{"rendered":"How to deal with workplace conflict"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto\" src=\"http:\/\/media.monsterindia.com\/cmsimages\/1475839639.jpg\" alt=\"work place conflict\" width=\"650\" height=\"433\" \/><br \/>Have you ever felt like standing on your desk and calling out a colleague for being <em>&lsquo;laan<\/em>&rsquo;?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">Have you ever stared down a colleague for three straight days because she said you were &lsquo;<em>mo yong<\/em>&rsquo;?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">You&rsquo;re not alone when facing workplace conflict. Everyone has had their fair share of awkward, negative workplace encounters. In Hong Kong, most employees are known to be workaholics &#8211; and long hours adds to the stress and pressure. All these factors can culminate in some wound-up employees, many of whom are incapable of shrugging off problems and walking away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\"><strong>Communication<br \/><\/strong>Poor communication is probably the number one cause of bad blood in the office. Messages sent in jest or in a rush can be misinterpreted, especially in a multicultural work environment. Sometimes people don&rsquo;t represent their thoughts well, and other times the recipient of a comment can take what you said completely the wrong way. It happens!<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">Instead of fuming about it at your desk, deal with it head on. This doesn&rsquo;t mean storming over to colleague&rsquo;s desk in a huff to make a scene, but simply addressing the communication with a mind to setting things straight. Don&rsquo;t go looking for a fight, go looking for a resolution.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\"><strong>Personality<br \/><\/strong>When two hard-headed colleagues clash, it can result in a Mexican standoff. Neither party wants to be the first to back down (despite the fact that the answer to the problem is often incredibly obvious!)<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">In cases where personalities clash, there&rsquo;s not a lot you can do about it except manage the situation. The two enemies might never become allies, but they can (and should) learn how to conduct themselves in a professional manner in the office, and keep any personal feelings out of business decisions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">Never hold a grudge against a colleague for something they did in the past, it will impede on the collaboration for future projects. Always put the work first.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">Want more advice like this? Visit our <a title=\"Career Advice and Tips\" href=\"http:\/\/content.monster.com.hk\/career\/\">Monster Career Centre<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em>Jobs in Hong Kong are easy to come by if you&#8217;re looking in the right place. At<\/em> <a href=\"http:\/\/jobsearch.monster.com.hk\/\"><em>Monster Hong Kong<\/em><\/a><em>, we can help you find part time jobs in any industry. Whether you&#8217;re looking for<\/em> <a href=\"http:\/\/jobsearch.monster.com.hk\/jobresults\/full-time\/\"><em>full time<\/em><\/a><em> or<\/em> <a href=\"http:\/\/jobsearch.monster.com.hk\/jobresults\/part-time\/\"><em>part time<\/em><\/a><em> jobs we&#8217;re here to help. Our pages are separated by categories such as the hottest<\/em> <a href=\"http:\/\/jobsearch.monster.com.hk\/jobresults\/government-public-sector-defence\/\"><em>government jobs<\/em><\/a><em>,<\/em> <a href=\"http:\/\/jobsearch.monster.com.hk\/jobresults\/it-computers-software\/\"><em>IT jobs<\/em><\/a><em>,<\/em> <a href=\"http:\/\/jobsearch.monster.com.hk\/jobresults\/fmcg\/\"><em>FMCG<\/em><\/a><em>,<\/em> <a href=\"http:\/\/jobsearch.monster.com.hk\/jobresults\/education\/\"><em>education jobs<\/em><\/a><em>, and many more.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever felt like standing on your desk and calling out a colleague for being &lsquo;laan&rsquo;? Have you ever stared down a colleague for three straight days because she said you were &lsquo;mo yong&rsquo;? You&rsquo;re not alone when facing workplace conflict. Everyone has had their fair share of awkward, negative workplace encounters. In Hong [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7153,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-7152","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-work-life-balance"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.foundit.sg\/career-advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7152","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.foundit.sg\/career-advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.foundit.sg\/career-advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.foundit.sg\/career-advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.foundit.sg\/career-advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7152"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.foundit.sg\/career-advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7152\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.foundit.sg\/career-advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7153"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.foundit.sg\/career-advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7152"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.foundit.sg\/career-advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7152"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.foundit.sg\/career-advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7152"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}